http://TollieSchmidt.com answers a question from a teenage student asking for advice. He was asked by his girlfriend, “Why do you love me”? The problem is he did not know how to respond. Simple answer, your not in Love.
It never occurred to them that you’d become even more magnificent. That they’d be invoking your sympathy, adding to your compassion, and increasing your “greatness.” And it will still be eons before they can grasp that you actually welcomed them into your life and played their little games for some of these very reasons.
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your right man …
your right man everything you said is right its true the less you worry bout the things the better the realtionship is love is when you can feel it in ur heart when u can just feel her right beside you ive been with my gf for 4 months now and i can honestly tell you im in love with her and shes my second gf and i waited 17 yrs for her but everything u said is all true
I just saw the full …
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I just saw the full …
I just saw the full version of this over at str8xxxvids(.com), it’s much better with nothing missing. It makes you sign up, but its worth it.
Very well said.
Very well said.
For some reason I …
For some reason I feel this one kinda personal.
A lot of guys are …
A lot of guys are douche bags
Yep, he doesn’t …
Yep, he doesn’t love her.
yes. usually these …
yes. usually these thigns end up hurting everyone
He doesnt love her. …
He doesnt love her. he might not even know it. sad…
Exactly Tollies …
Exactly Tollies point. You know a thousand thigns or you know nothing If you know nothing. Your not in love.
I placed this video …
I placed this video in my fav.s girls are always asking ‘why do love me”? what the???? Because your hot. Your smart. I dig the way you move. That dimple. Tha thting in your voice……… need I say more?
Ouch the guy should …
Ouch the guy should be shot. he needs to stop leading people on.
but i stil dont …
but i stil dont think being selfish is being intentionally mean. Tollie’s point is that when someone cheats its not your fault. its their fault. and i agree 1,000%. Wehterh their trying to be mean or not, their doing something wrong
selfishness is no …
selfishness is no excuse. it means u dont care enough about other people. and that, in itself is causing pain on purpose
but like Tollie …
but like Tollie said on the ‘cheating’ vid, some people do things without WANTING to hurt you.
I think taht even if you are a player, that doesnt mean your trying to hurt others it just makes you selfish…
some guys R jsut …
some guys R jsut players and they make me sick. they think they can just treat girls anyway, your right thats not love
he also says love …
he also says love is an emotion not a word. truest words every spoeken ******
When she’s there, …
When she’s there, even if its in silence, that feeling is love…….
right on the point
brkfstfoods, i tink …
brkfstfoods, i tink thats dif tha what Tollie is saying, the guy he’s referencing ovsiously didnt know what he was wanted
i know what its …
i know what its like not to know what to say. but that was because there were too many reasons to be in love with her. when its every little thing, how do pick the most important…
u go boy. u r sexy …
u go boy. u r sexy and smart. a deadly combination. i subscribed.
alytara, i …
alytara, i completely agree. this isnt ‘decide what you want time’ either he loves her or not
the guy needs t …
the guy needs t move on if he cant answer her question. your right Tollie. He doesnt love her.
Let me count the …
Let me count the ways….hahaha…..
I think some o fthe French movies are really based in reality. they are sometimes almost painful to watch because their so like real life. But the whole American Barbie thing has really impacted our society.
at 7:06:00 you talk …
at 7:06:00 you talk about how thngs depend on our reference point. that is so true, you dont even know how that is my life.
Great page! enlightening stuff!